Don’t Stop Fighting. Stop Fighting Badly.
Most couples try to “never fight.” Successful couples learn how to repair. This is a practical step-by-step manual for doing exactly that.
- End emotional damage after fights
- Repair disconnection after arguments
- Prevent the same patterns from returning
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You love each other.. but it feels off lately.
You’re not falling apart.
You’re stuck in patterns you were never taught how to fix.
- Consistently running on empty
- Roommates, not partners
- Same fight on repeat
- Managing logistics without emotional connection
- Intimacy disappears after every argument
Sound familiar? You are not alone.
I’m Ash. I am a husband who nearly lost my own marriage. I’m not a therapist. But after spending thousands on therapy I realized most couples don’t need more insight. They need clear repair tools they can actually use in the moment. So I studied what works, distilled it and built a practical system couples like us can use.
You don’t have to trust me blindly. Preview the first chapter to confirm if the approach fits you. If it does, the rest of the book gives you the full repair system.
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Real couples, Real change
Here's what happened when they applied these strategies.
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After our baby arrived, it was like we forgot how to be a couple. We were tired, snappy, and disconnected. The section on conflict and parenting hit home HARD. We’re still working on things, but we finally have tools to help.
Morgan & Paige
Portland, OR • New parents
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I’m a skeptical person. But the repair scripts in chapter 3 gave me exact words to say when my wife shuts down. First time in years I didn’t feel helpless during a fight. Totally worth the money and much recommended.
Richard
Austin, TX • Together 7 years
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We were in the same fight loop for three years. Week 1 with this system, we had our first conflict that didn’t end in a door slam. Week 3, we actually laughed about how we used to argue. This is a toolkit that actually works.
Michael & Laura Bennett
London • Married 3 years
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We thought we were just ‘going through a phase’… until that phase became our new normal. This book helped us save our marriage. The exercises actually got us talking again. No preachiness. Just real stuff that works.
Alysha & Anthony
Brighton • Partners 2 years
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Honestly, we were pleasantly surprised. We’ve read so many ‘relationship hacks’ online. But this one felt different. The book made us remember why we chose each other. 10/10 recommend doing it together on a weekend.
Sam & Sherry
Chicago, IL • Married 9 years, 2 kids
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We were already in couples therapy but this book gave a new perspective and changed how we talk, how we listen, and how we fight. The exercises especially The Onion Peel Process are gold and the anecdotes are relatable.
Nisha & Karthik
India • Married 5 years
What's Inside
Actionable protocols to transform conflict from relationship poison into relationship fuel.
Part 1: Interrupt the Cycle
Spot the "Four Horsemen"
Learn to identify the 4 specific behaviors (Criticism, Defensiveness, Contempt, Stonewalling) that predict divorce
The 20-Minute Protocol
Implement the S.T.O.P. Method to take a timeout that calms your nervous system instead of fueling resentment.
The Onion Peel Process
Stop having the same argument. Peel back the 5 layers to find the hidden Dreams and Core Needs driving the gridlock.
Part 2: Rebuild Connection
The Capacity Check
Use the Low/Medium/Full battery check to align expectations instantly and eliminate "burnout arguments."
Escape the 'Roommate Trap'
Learn why "How was your day?" is killing your intimacy and how to replace it with the High-Low-Hero Check-in.
Forensic Gratitude
Train your brain to see the "Invisible Load" your partner carries, validating their effort before resentment builds.
Part 3: Protect the Bond
The Unified Front Principle
How to align with your partner first before responding to family, ensuring your marriage is never the battlefield.
Conscious Recommitment
Move beyond your wedding vows to a daily practice of choosing your partner, flaws and all, in the present moment.
Catching the Drift
The art of noticing when you've veered off track and making small course corrections before "drift" becomes "distance".
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- What to say when things escalate
- How to pause a fight in the moment
- How to reconnect after arguments
- Handle the same issues differently
- Stay aligned through stress
Costs less than a date night. Helps when it matters most.
Still on the Fence?
The book works best when both partners engage with the exercises together. Some couples start with one partner introducing the tools gradually, then work through it together.
This book is for you if :
- You are fighting more than connecting but aren’t ready to give up.
- You want practical, field-tested tools – not years of theory.
- You are willing to try new things, even when it feels awkward.
- You are in the first decade together (when patterns form and tools stick fastest).
This book is not for situations where:
- Abuse (physical, emotional, financial) is present – please seek professional help first.
- Active addiction is ongoing and untreated.
- One partner has completely checked out or is in an ongoing affair.
Nope. Think of this as a relationship toolkit – filled with tools, exercises and prompts you can use right now, at your own pace.
Not at all. Whether you’re dating, living together, or been married 10 years – the tools inside are relevant for any committed partnership.
Yes. The tools are about emotions, communication, and connection – not gender roles or outdated labels. It’s written to be inclusive.
Because you get instant access to the full system, I can’t offer refunds. That’s why I priced it at $27 – less than a single takeout dinner – and let you preview Chapter 1 for free so you know exactly what you’re getting.
Two Paths Forward. Which Will You Choose?
Without This eBook
- Repeating the same conflicts
- Feeling unheard and misunderstood
- Growing resentment
- Avoiding important conversations
- Wondering if it's over
Cost: Your Peace of Mind
With This eBook
- Clear resolution framework
- Tools to express yourself
- Deeper emotional connection
- Confidence to address issues
- Growing stronger together
Cost: One-time payment of $27